The Look Of Class-Its Not Just Red Bottoms And A Chanel Bag

Photo by  Park Street  on  Unsplash

Photo by Park Street on Unsplash

In The Land Of Flip Flops And Yoga Pants

Along comes across a well dressed, well spoken woman with elegance and grace that sweeps a room, turns heads and melts hearts.

Her hair is done smoothly and polish, her nails aren’t chipped, her smile is beautiful and confident, her outfit is smooth and couture but what it truly is-is her PERSONALITY. It’s contagious. It lights up a room.

Words can lie but energy doesn’t.

When this woman walks in you FEEL her energy before you sometimes even see her. Class and elegance begins within. I often teach this in my courses. In order to find the love you seek you must do the inner work first.

For example, today we went shopping and one of the amazing sales reps (Brandon at Jared Jewelers in Keystone Indiana) came up to us and gushed “I just felt drawn to you both, you’re so well dressed and polished.” IMMEDIATELY we hit it off-like attracts like.

He first felt our energy then saw us and knew we were someone he wanted to get to know. Not oddly enough we had a ton in common! This is how relationships of all kinds form is first feeling out someones energy-then getting to know them.

Many women throw on whatever before they leave, not bothering with hair or makeup-this reflects the messiness of the internal life. It doesn’t take a lot to look on the outside how you feel and are on the inside.

Your outer world is always, ALWAYS a reflection of your internal world.

Many people want a quick fix but this is not how true success ever works.

Don’t take the cheating path, take the tried and true path.

This is why I am so passionate about my programs and working with women 1-1 to get the results they desire.

You can achieve what you desire and there is nothing holding you back besides your mindset.

A mindset that conquers all is one that is resourceful and positive. It wins out over anything else any given day.

The point is you do not need a Chanel bag or anything else to be classy-It truly comes from within and is reflected on the outside in the way you carry yourself and treat others.

How vision is key to manifestation...


It’s not pretend if it actually happened.


Recently a client of mine shifted. 
I saw her shift and it may have been ever so subtle but it was so incredibly powerful.
She had just quantum shifted into such a higher frequency than when I met her, a single mother who was trying to make it all work. She now had a glow and flow to her a spark that was lit strongly from within.
An inner manifestation switch she had cultivated. 
Beauty spilled out of her post like honey over flowing and I knew in that second my work and energy had done its job.
Nothing is more deeply gratifying to me than a shift in a client to realize the world is limitless and they are truly worthy of all dreams& future possibilities.

I’ve always taken pride in fulfilling dreams through the work I do and the humbleness God has instilled in me to do so.

So back to the point.
How can you change your entire life in an instant?!
“Without vision the people perish.” -Proverbs 29:18
You need strong vision. And not a vision of man. No, no! Something much greater.

Gods vision for you.

Dreaming into what could be because we only know reality from our past experiences. 
And once we shift...oh baby! Once we shift to a limitless paradigm it’s a whole new world!!

Life was not meant to play small. 
There’s too much of that.
Be great, be amazing, be the best-be a legend in Gods design for you. 
You’re a make and model like no else. 
Trust that the future holds more for you.

“We walk by faith not by sight.” -2 Corinthians 5:7 you must believe it before you see it. And you must know it is possible and TRUST it before it comes.

Gods design for you all along was a limitless, beautiful design. 
It’s not that it hasn’t happened. It’s that it has t happened-yet.


Self Love-Isn't Selfish

We Are Told To Love Ourselves and Take Pride In Ourselves Is Vain…But Thats BS.

Enter our world of fast paced EVERYTHING. From your phone model to the car model you have to the crappy dating sites (Tinder anyone?!) to fast food.

Our world has become cheap.

Cheapened, quick, easy and of course it leaves us feeling empty, broken, torn and unloved. So when we go to take care of ourselves we feel a sense of guilt because our fast paced society (which operates in the masculine push-push go-go energy) is over taking everything. We have lost touch with our femininity.

Hence why women are burning out.

We feel disconnected.

In a room full of people but lonely or surrounded by everything we wanted yet empty-spiritually.

We need self love.

True self love. The kind where you slow down, run a hot bath with some wine and journal out your inner stuff…getting the root of your deepest desires, deepest conflicts and where you ultimately want to go in life. True self love is filling yourself back up when our fast paced world depletes you. Its not spending tons of money on things you cant afford or endlessly and mindlessly going out and doing things just because you see them on other blogs titled “self love” its truly

Doing the INNER WORK.

Working your “stuff” out and bettering yourself-inside and out daily.

It’s about eating healthy but ALSO buying nice things for you, hydrating yourself, slowing down to rest and relax, taking care of your mindset with positivity and renewal and growth. It’s being around the right kind of people and deepening your faith in why you’re here, on earth.

Self love is not selfish. It’s by far the best thing you can do for you and everyone around you!

New Morning Routine

My new office, love or LOVE?!

My new office, love or LOVE?!

If you’re like me you probably tried to stick to morning routines but after

a few weeks have found yourself with the covers over your body, staying in bed as late as possible and responding to emails and texts before waking for the day and beginning the day.

The power is in how you BEGIN the day.

So many of us drift through the day and I began to feel like I was too. Finally I wanted answers so like the researcher I am I went to google, iTunes podcasts and people I admired. I found some common (and not so common) themes that I want to share with you guys.

How you start your day determines the theme of your day.

First things first. Upon waking get the body hydrated!

  1. Hydrate

  2. Move (25 jumping jacks or similar)

  3. Prayer/meditation (5-15 min)

  4. A cold shower (3 seconds) followed by a hot shower. This shocks your system and awakens your senses and oddly enough has some health benefits as well. This will definitely be the hardest one for me to start doing as I hate being cold but I have heard about this for years from some of the healthiest, most successful people I know and so why not try it!

  5. Micronutrient rich breakfast (vitamins) I an going to begin with chlorella, green smoothies and maybe even start making banana ice cream (blend bananas and almond milk in blender and freeze) this helps with reducing muscle cramping and tastes oh so good.

  6. Stretch. This is something I have ignored for years and has led to my body feeling 80 sometimes lol and not a good 80. I decided to try some stretch classes at my local gym and LOVE them! I feel like a new person after (hello forever 21 body)

    After 21 days it becomes a habit

    So obviously not everyday will go like this but I want to make a very conscious effort this year to follow a plan of action to help me with anxiety and depression relief. I noticed the more structured my day and the more its filled with positive promoting activities (less social media, more joy filled IRL activities) the better I feel day to day.

    We all have seen on our phones our daily screen time and it can be HORRIFYING! Mine week to week tends to be anywhere from 8-12 hours a day!! Granted I work on social media but still thats pretty much all waking hours with my face in a phone.

    Another goal I have this year is to make more local friends and to travel more after my body heals from surgery. I love travel and cant wait to blog more about all the places and fun things I embark on!

    I want to hear from you…What are your New Years new habits? Leave it in the comments section or tell me on my latest IG post! @Celiacavallico

Can’t wait to see you all thrive in 2019!

<3 Celia